pussy

"Pussy" has a few meanings in English. Two of them are perfectly neutral and common, especially in older or children's language. One sense is vulgar and offensive. The neutral senses are covered fully below, with a brief note on the vulgar one.

1nouncat or kitten

This is the oldest and most traditional meaning. 'Pussy' (or 'pussy cat') is a gentle, affectionate word for a cat, used especially when talking to or about cats in a soft, friendly way. You will often hear this in children's books, nursery rhymes, and older texts.

everyday language, children's language · Traditional; still used, especially with children

The little girl called out, 'Here, pussy, pussy!' to get the cat's attention.

There's a pussy sitting on the windowsill watching the birds.

The nursery rhyme begins: 'Pussy cat, pussy cat, where have you been?'

2nounfigurativea timid or weak person (informal insult)

In informal speech, calling someone a 'pussy' means you think they are being cowardly, overly cautious, or weak. This is used as a mild-to-moderate insult. It is not polite, but you will hear it in casual conversation, films, and TV shows.

informal, colloquial speech · Modern, widely used in informal contexts · figurative

Don't be such a pussy — just jump into the water, it's not that cold!

He refused to try the spicy food, and his friends called him a pussy.

3nounvulgar anatomical term

This sense refers to female genitalia. It is considered vulgar and offensive in most contexts. It is best avoided in polite or formal situations.

vulgar language